Baylor Tide Flowe is here

and no, his name has nothing to do with college football! I wanted to incorporate my maiden name into his 1st name, so that is where that came from. Anyway, he is simply PEREFECT in every way. He weighed 6 lbs, 14 oz. and was 19" long. Born at 12:40 PM on Thursday, September 20th, 2012. Mother had a pretty easy time and everything is well!! He is sooooo tiny, I cannot believe it. He sleeps all of the time, waking up only to eat and is eating well too. We just LOVE him.

Brighton came to meet him at the hospital on Friday. It was very sweet. He was really excited and just thrilled that this baby that we had all talked about for so long was actually real.

Delivery was once again at CMC University, and just like the 1st time there, Jason, baby and I loved our stay. They were very good to us there. I know some people find this hard to believe but we almost did not want to leave. We were ready to get home to Brighton though, and start our new chapter. We left the hospital on Sunday. The weather had changed since we had gotten there and the day was perfect for going home. Almost like fall had arrived while we were there.

Here is Baylor Tide on Going Home Day

So, on Sunday, shortly after we got home, Brighton did too. He could not wait to see his little brother. He wanted to help Mommy feed him. He loves giving him kisses on his head. It is really sweet. For being such a good big brother, we gave Brighton a little play kitchen to play with. It is outside on our porch. Brighton loves to know what I am doing in the kitchen when I am cooking and likes to play in my utensils drawer so we thought this would occupy his time quite nicely, at least for a little while.

I am really enjoying being at home with my new baby. I love him more than I ever thought was possible. He just completes our family and I could not ask for a happier time in my life than now!! Baylor is a sweet pea and I am not even minding the long nights! Jason has been very helpful with him and we try to work out feedings times that work for both of us so I am very thankful to have such a supportive and helpful husband :) Also, Brighton has not yet asked us when we are returning Baylor to where he came from, so that is good too! I will add more to this blog as I can. Sweet Pea is sleeping and coo-ing right next to me as I post this.

Ticking away, the moments that make up a tall day.

One last time I am blogging. This one will be much shorter than the last couple. We are literally counting down until the moments that we check in to the hospital. Brighton is going on the world tour of grandparents while we are there, so he will be quite happy. I am packing his bag tonight. I am getting very emotional over parting from him to go and do this..like there is any other way. Last weekend was the last weekend he will be an only child. Oh I get teary eyed thinking of it, but I know once his brother is here I will not look back and will be so happy that he is here, completing our family!! I am not sure when I will be able to add anything to this blog for a while, but will probably be posting Facebook pictures sooner since I can do that from my phone much easier than I can add to this site. Goodbye for now and wish us luck!!

September 20th is the day...

and that's only 2 days away! I think I am ready. We had another productive weekend last weekend. I finally got my clothes and stored crap out of the former guest closet and put elsewhere and got baby clothes and blankets arranged in there with lots of space to spare! Also, we got the baby's room ready. Jason hung the blinds. He and my mom, got in there and hung the accessories and pictures. Please notice the beautiful artwork that my very talented sister did over the crib! The only disappointment was that the curtain panels that I ordered were to short, so we could only hang the valance for now.

Everything turned out better than I thought and the room now looks inviting!! Seeing it all up makes me realize that my ceilings are higher than I realized, so they sort of make everything look tiny. Well, that just means that there is room for more stuff on the walls!! I will be looking for some shelves next. In addition to improving that bedroom, we also got the house pretty clean and I packed my hospital bags. I FINALLY was experiencing some "nesting" tendencies which I have been greatly lacking this entire pregnancy.

Since I had to send my window panels back I did not take pics of the window/valence, but pictured above are the fabrics I chose for the room. The valence, chair as well as bedding are made out of this. I would like to use the top one on something else in there since I like it so much but not sure what I can do. Maybe a picture/bulletin board or something for the wall?

This is Brighton's new table and chairs. I have these beautiful little plans of the two of us out there sitting peacefully, coloring and enjoying projects and autumn weather while the baby sleeps inside. YEAH RIGHT!! Brighton does not sit still for long.

The Begingings of Baby's Room and Batman

Over the last week I have actually made some progress. I am not completely ready to bring baby home, but am certainly getting there! Jason got the baby bed and changing table assembled and moved into the bedroom. The bedding is in, but that's it as far as that room goes. Lacey painted me some beautiful artwork, and I have some wall decor that needs to go up with it. I am also waiting on the blinds to arrive so that we can hang the window treatments in there. All of of those things should hopefully be completed this coming weekend. Jason and I brought up all of Brighton's baby clothes, blankets, newborn contraptions (swings, seats, bottles boppy, etc...)and went through them. I washed them all and put them away. So, that part is at least done! I still have a lot of work to do in the closet in there. Maybe this weekend that will happen. I have been storing all of my winter clothes in there so those must come out and find another home :( These pictures are not the greatest as the lighting was bad, but they are better than nothing. More to come once everything is put up in there and on the walls.

Last weekend I found a few things that I have been looking for and finding them has made me feel very relieved. 1st, was a coming home outfit for the baby. Brighton had worn something that was monogrammed so that wasn't going to work for this one. I have been looking for a long time and could never find anything special enough. I finally did on Saturday! Yay. Also, for the past few months I have been searching for a wooden youth table and chairs set. I did not really care what it looked like as I knew we would just paint it, but still it has been hard to find! Like I said, I wanted it to be painted so I have been looking for something used on Craigslist. NOTHING but plastic tables have been on there for sale though. I was losing hope. Saturday, while I was out and about I passed the perfect table and chairs set for sale outside at someone's house!! I turned around and purchased it.The right price and everything! So after it has been painted it will go outside on our screened-in porch. I want Brighton to have a place to color and play with play dough, etc... out there so this will be perfect! I guess everything is going to come together after all.

Brighton has been obsessed with Batman for the last month or so. He loves dressing up like him and playing with all of his figurines and Batmobiles. He watches the old Batman shows from the 1960's. Or were they from the 70's? Anyway, he cannot get enough. I was at Target the other day and walked by the Thomas the Train section in Toys and got a little sad. He is all about Batman! Also, he has been doing VERY well with his potty training. His teacher even complemented him on it the other day to me!

Labor Day Weekend

Labor Day weekend was filled with family from my mom's side. Uncle Ronnie, Aunt Vicki, and Zach traveled from Greensboro, AL. Tyler, Sarah and Griffin came from Birmingham, AL, Patrick, Stephanie, Cooper and Carter came from Savannah GA. They all made the drive so that we could get together. I LOVE getting together with my Thomas cousins and this time was even more special as we had another generation to add to the mix.

So many little kids were around this time! So much fun!!

Cute Carter Kisgen on the kayak! (The kids were just sitting in this tube for this picture. Brighton is NOT allowed to be pulled in a tube until he is 5 and swimming like a fish!!)

We had a big group. We did some boating, floating around on the lake, and playing on the beach. We had shish kabobs for Jason's birthday dinner at our house on Friday (HAPPY BIRTHDAY JASON!!!), BBQ for Game Day at my mom's Saturday and Lacey and Mickey had a fish fry at their house on Sunday. While we were all together, Stephanie had a great idea to take a group picture with everyone dressed in their college game day apparel. This was done on Saturday as there were quite a few important college games on. We have a mix of team fans in this group, including Georgia PLUS some healthy rivalries: Alabama vs Auburn and (South) Carolina/Clemson. This was NOT the official picture. Stephanie is going to send it out this weekend hopefully and then I will post. This picture was taken as we were all assembling together to take THE picture!

It was a fabulous weekend. Such a great chance to see family members who we do not see often enough. It means so much that everyone made this effort. Thanks to those who traveled so far!

Our rollar coaster ride

I have been MIA from this blog and my real life for a while. Thank goodness we are getting back to normal, and that everything is going to be alright. Since we have been on the move for the past month, we were looking forward to a couple of weekends at home. We were going to play on the new boat, and get the baby's room in order. The Powers That Be had other ideas. 2 Fridays ago Jason started complaining of some aches and thought he may be coming down with the flu or something. By early Saturday morning he was in bad pain, the worst of his life. We went to the emergency room. They gave him an IV and ran blood tests. They released him after hydrating and medicating him. We were to wait on the test results. He had spotted a tick on him a week earlier so the initial thought for everyone was that he had Lyme disease or Rocky Mountain. Monday he went to his regular doctor, who ran more blood tests. Tuesday, he was feeling very weak, so we went back to the ER. No one seemed to know what was wrong. Shortly after the 2nd trip to the ER his Dr. called with blood results. Jason had Rhabdomyolysis. Short version: Rhabdomyolysis is the rapid breakdown (lysis) of skeletal muscle tissue (rhabdomyo) due to injury to muscle tissue. The muscle damage may be caused by physical (e.g. crush injury), chemical, or biological factors. The destruction of the muscle leads to the release of the breakdown products of damaged muscle cells into the bloodstream; some of these, such as myoglobin, are harmful to the kidney and may lead to acute kidney failure. Treatment is with intravenous fluids, and dialysis or hemofiltration if necessary. His doctor tried to treat him as an out patient with I.V. treatment in his office but by Thursday, Jason was looking worse. Worried for his kidney's the Dr. had him admitted into the hospital. After a 2 day, 2 night stay, and lots of I.V. treatments they released him. He is back home and finally today is starting to feel like his normal self again. Thank goodness they found out what this was, and how to treat it, and BEFORE it damaged his kidneys. This was really stressful and so scary. (I am sorry, but I do not know how to break up my blogs into paragraphs unless I insert a picture!). We are soooo thankful that Jason is recovering well and is back home with us.

Of course Brighton did not really know anything was wrong and thought his daddy was working. This picture was taken the Friday that Jason 1st started to feel bad. This is a lesson for Jason and I not to take things and each other for granted. It gave us all a huge scare. Our whole family was worried sick about him and are so glad that he is feeling better!

It's hard to believe it

but Monday was little Jameson's 1st day of school. Kindergarten. I cannot believe how the time has flown. She will always be 2 and a half in my heart. Our sweet baby girl, my little niece. She is the closest thing to a daughter I will have and is growing up. It makes me sad.

She was a little nervous about her 1st day, but Lacey said when she picked her up afterwards, Jameson had a huge smile on her face and loved her 1st day!

Long weekend at Myrtle Beach

Jason, Brighton and I have just returned from a long weekend at the beach. We packed up and left late Friday morning. Jason had a trade show to work on Tuesday morning, so we decided to go early and have some fun before he had to work. We stayed at Jason's mom's beach place until about mid day Monday.

This was our 3rd trip to the beach this summer and the 1st time that we have had mostly decent weather. We stayed around the beach or the pool most of the time. Brighton liked the beach a lot but seemed to prefer the pool after he was on the beach for more than 30 minutes or so. I personally don't blame him but his father would prefer to be in the sand the whole time! We did a little of both but I think we found it was a little easier dealing with the pool for longer periods of time. Anyway, it was nice to have both options. It was also nice to have the golf cart option. We took rides whenever we thought Brighton was getting restless, and took it to dinner one night, as we went somewhere close by.

On Monday we checked into the Kingston Plantation Resort where Jason would be working on Tuesday morning. This was our view from the 10th floor.

The resort also had a water park. Brighton was more than thrilled to take his 1st water slide ride. Times 50! He wanted to do it over and over.

This was Brighton and I killing time on Tuesday morning.

We had a great time. It was a nice little break, to get away for a few days. It will most definitely be our last trip before the baby comes. As it should be! We have been on the go for weeks now it seems. I felt overall good while we were gone with some contractions at night, which seem to be the new normal for me. My biggest fear was us ending up in the Conway, SC hospital having this baby early. He has given false alarm scares lately. We made it home just fine though.

Lately I have been feeling very, very...um, pregnant! Yes, i am feeling it for sure. It has definitely been a little more challenging this time around. It seems that I will have a couple of weeks in a row where I am just feeling all around terrible, achy and weak, then I will get a surprise few days where I feel just fine. I have been waiting for those "fine" days to come back lately. I went to the Dr. yesterday and they told me that my blood pressure was very low. Maybe that has something to do with the way I have been feeling. While I was there, the nurse tried to get an accurate heart rate (as they do at every visit). This time, the baby was rolling and 'running' around so quickly under the dopplar that she could not get a count! We could see him racing around and bumping under my stomach. She finally had to give up. At least we knew he was okay in there! This baby moves like that ALL OF THE TIME! I finally got someone else to witness it. This is what he does every night when I get in bed to relax. Luckily my cravings in my 3rd trimester have gotten alot healthier than my previous ones. I am now wanting reduced fat triscuits and salads. I do not have room to eat alot at one time though :( I am 6 weeks away from his birthday!!!! OMG am I ready? Yes and no for different reasons. Mostly yes though. I am ready to see him, and to get myself feeling back to normal.

Charleston Visit

Last weekend we went to Charleston to visit our dear friends The Johnson's. Shayna, David, Remley and Rhett. We always enjoy our time with them. The last time that we were at their house and had Brighton with us, he was crawling. This time he was running around and getting into all of Rhett's toys. The older guys went fishing and Shayna, the kids and I enjoyed some golf cart rides and pool time.

Since Shayna and I are both pregnant, and at the same time for once, we decided to treat ourselves to a girls night on Saturday and went to dinner. It was a fun time. Oh and Shayna's mom Ginny had my bedding finished for the new baby's room! That was a surprise. It looks great but I am not posting pictures until I have done some more to that room. It is still coming together. I am having the glider recovered now, and my mom is going to start on the window treatment next week.

Baby Shower

Last Saturday, Lacey and my mom threw us a baby shower. It was beach themed, like the new baby's room is going to be. We loved seeing family, and such good friends!

We got a lot of essentials and some pretty cute room decor!!

It was such a fun time, and a great chance to see everyone. I am only sad that I did not get more good pictures, as it was decorated sooooooo cutely! Lacey and my mom went all out with the decor and food. I hope that someone will send me better pics and I can post them later.

Girl Cousins

My sister Kelley and her daughters Gracie and Emory are here this week for a visit. Brighton is so excited to see his cousins, ALL girl cousins. I guess it is only fair that I have another boy to even out this family some! Anyway, we are having alot of fun visiting with them. Brighton even participates in their tea parties.

We asked Brighton...

if he wanted a brother or a boat??? He said BOAT without hesitation. We decided that he could have both!

Not sure when we will find the time to enjoy it with a new one on the way but look forward to giving it lots of TLC so that we can enjoy it for years to come, and Brighton can enjoy both a new brother and a boat!

I am pretty sure that Jason is more excited than Brighton!

Last weekend was so nice and almost relaxing! It is Restaurant Week in Charlotte. Quite a few upscale places do a 3 course meal for a set price that is very reasonable. Jason and I decided to have a date night on Friday. We went to Alton's in Jetton Village. It was delicious! Prime rib stuffed mushrooms, pan seared filets and twice baked potatoes. Yum. Desert? Yes we had it but I can tell you I did not have more than 2 bites of it as I was so full already! It was a nice treat.

On Saturday, Jason's friend Jason Hooks and his family came over to visit. It was Jason, his wife Liz and their 3 boys, Bradley, Tyler and Dylan. Brighton played with the boys and we had some fun in the sun and then grilled cheeseburgers.

In other news, I am happy to report that we seem to be on the road to potty training! I have always heard that boys sometimes take a while to be ready for this, so I was not trying to force it to soon. We have been talking about it to Brighton since he turned 2, and he has had some interest and has actually gone a couple of random times on the potty but nothing consistant. This week he has gone 5 times on the potty! He is very proud of himself. Lets see if we can keep it up!

It has been a while since I have posted anything here. We are officially in the dog days of summer. Nothing major to report but I thought I would post a few pics of Brighton.

We have had a few low key weekends where we did not have any set plans, which was kind of nice. We are just trying to stay cool in the lake and the pool with a few good boat rides in between!

The next weekends of the summer are filled up with plans, visitors, and weekend getaways so I am sure they will go by fast. For my sake I hope so. I think I have mentioned before this heat is really bogging me down. It is hard being pregnant in the summer! This little one is quite active I may add. I need to get busy and get out the baby stuff that is just sitting in boxes and bins in the basement. It will be fun to go through it all again. For some odd reason though, I have not been experiencing "nesting" like I did last time. I need it to happen though so that I can get organized. We will be so busy during the next few weekends though. I don't think it will happen until after Labor Day weekend. Procrastination...

July 4th

With the 4th of July being on a Wednesday this year, it certainly did break up the week. Not sure if it will make it seem shorter or longer. I am thinking longer, as it was just a teaser for the weekend.

Wednesday or not, we celebrated the occasion. It was another super hot day. We have been having a lot of those lately. I am almost over this summer as it has been TO hot for me to enjoy. I am starting to think it may be best if I sit the rest of the summer out INSIDE in the AC! We did have a nice little rain storm later in the day to cool things off. We were able to make a full day of it, seeing lots of family and friends.

Now with that over with, we only have 2 more days until the weekend. It is back to work for now though. I have finally been able to pick out some stuff for the new baby's room! Some fabric and accessories have been purchased so I am feeling better about that. Now, if I could just get some better sleep at night...